Listening to Your Body: The First Step Toward Healing and Self-Trust
We’re often taught to override the signals of our body.
Push through. Numb out. Stay busy.
Even when our body whispers: “I’m tired.” “This doesn’t feel right.” “Something needs to change.”
Over time, this disconnect from our inner signals can leave us feeling anxious, stuck, burnt out—or even like we’ve lost touch with ourselves altogether. But the truth is, your body has a deep, innate wisdom. And when we learn how to listen to it with curiosity instead of judgment, something powerful begins to shift.
What It Means to "Listen to Your Body"
Listening to your body isn’t about interpreting every sensation as a warning sign or trying to “fix” yourself. It’s about pausing long enough to notice what’s there. To feel without needing to analyze. To witness without rushing to change.
In somatic work, this kind of presence is central: gently bringing awareness to the internal cues of your body with openness and compassion. Over time, it helps you build a more attuned relationship with your nervous system—and with yourself.
Why We Lose the Connection
There are many reasons why we learn to tune out. Chronic stress, trauma, and a fast-paced culture that values productivity over presence can all lead us to override our needs. Sometimes it hasn’t felt safe to be in our bodies—especially if our past experiences taught us that it was better to disconnect than to feel.
But when we start to create space for embodied awareness—even just for a few minutes a day—we begin to repair the communication pathways between body and mind. This is how self-trust grows.
How Intuitive Movement Supports the Process
Intuitive movement can be a powerful somatic healing exercise that helps you return to this inner dialogue. Unlike structured exercise or performance-based movement, intuitive movement invites you to ask:
What does my body need right now?
Where do I feel tension? What feels nourishing?
There’s no right or wrong answer. Maybe it’s a deep stretch. Maybe it’s shaking out your arms. Maybe it’s lying down in stillness.
The point isn’t to “do it right.” The point is to be in relationship with your body as it is, right now.
The Nervous System Connection
When we meet our body with attention and care, our nervous system begins to feel safer. This is important, because a dysregulated nervous system often interprets even neutral experiences as threats, keeping us in cycles of reactivity or shutdown.
But through mindful, embodied practices—like yoga, breathwork, and somatic healing exercises—we send a message back to the nervous system:
You’re safe. You’re allowed to feel. You’re allowed to soften.
This is how healing begins—not by forcing change, but by creating the conditions for it.
Your Body Holds the Wisdom
Reconnecting with your body isn’t always easy, especially if you’ve spent years in survival mode. But it is possible. One breath, one pause, one moment of honest presence at a time.
The more you practice listening, the more your body will speak.
And what you’ll find isn’t brokenness—it’s wisdom.
It’s aliveness.
It’s a deeper sense of self that’s been there all along, waiting to be heard.
-Franchesca
PS - If you’re looking for gentle guidance as you reconnect with your body, explore my weekly online community yoga classes. These practices are designed to support healing through presence, movement, and compassionate awareness.
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